i hope that in 2025 u get to take more walks, read more books, connect with more people whom u love and who love u, achieve ur goals (even if ur goals are having no goals and just living in the moment), exercise fun hobbies, move from a place of self-direction, and weave together a beguiling assortment of beautiful little moments. remember that no feeling lasts forever. love u
Have you made any New Year’s resolutions, Chuck? Yes, you know how I always dread the whole year? Well, this time I’m only going to dread one day at a time.
Honestly, you don’t need dating advice save for “just be yourself”. If a guy isn’t seduced by your extensive lecture about coealacanths, or a girl isn’t impressed by you gaming the McDonald’s systems to finesse yourself 30 free chicken nuggets, you’re on a date with the wrong person. Not a bad person, but one that isn’t the right match for you, and the way you want to live.
First dates are for showing someone “hey this is the kind of life I like to be living”, them doing the same, until you find someone who clicks and you both think “fuck yeah I want to live like this.” Whether that’s sitting in a café judging joggers, or casually committing small crime for shits and giggles.
